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The Family Who Doesn’t Understand

How to Communicate Better with Your Family

Sharleez Safi
5 min readDec 2, 2023
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Have you ever felt like your family doesn’t understand you? Like they don’t listen to your opinions, respect your choices, or support your dreams? Like they judge you, criticize you, or pressure you to be someone you’re not? If you have, then you’re not alone. Many people struggle with family communication problems, which can cause frustration, resentment, and conflict.

Family communication problems can occur for various reasons, such as:

  • A bad home environment. If the family atmosphere is tense, hostile, or chaotic, it can make communication difficult and unpleasant. Family members may avoid talking to each other, or they may resort to yelling, arguing, or fighting. They may also have different values, beliefs, or expectations, which can create misunderstandings and disagreements.
  • Individualism. If the family members are too focused on their own interests, needs, or goals, they may neglect or ignore the interests, needs, or goals of others. They may also have poor empathy, which is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. They may not care about how their words or actions affect others, or they may not be willing to compromise or cooperate.
  • Lack of time. If the family members are too busy with…

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Sharleez Safi
Sharleez Safi

Written by Sharleez Safi

I’m Sharleez Safi, a writer who loves beauty, learning, and creativity. I share tips and stories on how to live a beautiful, creative, and fulfilling life.

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