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How to Spot and Avoid Fake Love in Your Relationships

Learn the signs, causes, and consequences of fake love, and how to find and cultivate true love instead

Sharleez Safi
7 min readNov 22, 2023
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Love is one of the most powerful and universal emotions that humans can experience. It can inspire us, motivate us, heal us, and transform us. Love can also be a source of joy, peace, and fulfillment. But not all love is genuine and authentic. Sometimes, people can fall in fake love, or be deceived by someone who pretends to love them. Fake love can be harmful, painful, and destructive. It can also be hard to detect, especially when we are blinded by our feelings and hopes. So how can we tell the difference between real love and fake love? How can we protect ourselves from being fooled by someone who does not truly love us?

What is Fake Love?

Fake love is a term that describes a relationship that lacks the essential elements of true love, such as respect, trust, honesty, intimacy, and commitment. It is based on superficiality, manipulation, selfishness, and deception. It is not a genuine expression of affection, but a strategy to achieve ulterior motives, such as money, sex, status, or control. It does not care about the other person’s feelings, needs, or well-being, but only about one’s own gratification and benefit…

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Sharleez Safi
Sharleez Safi

Written by Sharleez Safi

I’m Sharleez Safi, a writer who loves beauty, learning, and creativity. I share tips and stories on how to live a beautiful, creative, and fulfilling life.

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